Frequently Asked Questions
Please watch the video below and read the FAQ before requesting a complimentary fertility strategy session
This video and FAQ will be SO helpful and will save you tons of time. By watching this video and reading about the program, you will have a very good idea about if you will want me in your fertility journey or not before taking the time to talk to me. If so, let’s go! If no, still love you bro (but the female version of bro…whatever that is).
Ok, so that video explains what I do. Of course I need to take a customized approach to everyone, but that is a good overview.
Next, I want to go over some additional frequently asked questions.
You talk a lot about the importance of the right fertility clinic and doctor. How do you pick the clinic? Do you always recommend the same ones?
Most clients don’t need to change clinics to be successful. But if they do, the clinic choices that I present to each client are crafted after I understand their needs, limitations, financial situation, insurance, goals, and personality. It is like a puzzle. I don’t always recommend the same one. I have clients all over the world (currently USA, Canada, UK, and Kuwait. Kuwait, what? Seriously? Yes, seriously. (I have been trying to fit that “Kuwait, what?” joke in ever since she became my client.)
Why should I believe you over my fertility clinic for the best strategies to be successful getting pregnant?
It is not about believing me over your fertility clinic; it is about working with me AND your fertility clinic.
I can’t, and don’t want to do what your fertility clinic does, and they can’t, and don’t know how to do what I do, but you need both to be successful. Yes, I had to bold that one :)
If a successful fertility journey were just dependent on the fertility clinic you choose, then the fertility clinics would have close to a 100% success rate. But they don’t. They have an average of a 35% success rate* because the Science is just one elements that you need to be successful.
When you have all necessary elements working together, your success rates get close to the 100%! And mine are! I have successfully shown 100% of my clients how to get pregnant (and stay pregnant) after the 1st or 2nd embryo transfer no matter what their issue was when they started working with me. Yes, even those that were told they couldn’t do IVF due to their low egg reserve.
Your fertility doctor and I will work together to ensure quick success. As long as your doctor doesn't suck, we will get along wonderfully. I have great relationships with tons of fertility doctors.
What if I'm the first person your program doesn't work for?
Everyone thinks that. You won't be. But, if you are the first person that does my program and does not get pregnant, you will get a refund.
Explain your guarantee. It seems too good to be true. What's the catch?
It's not too good to be true, it is how the industry should work. Why are people making more money the longer you’re NOT pregnant? Couldn’t that structure incentive the people you hire to not get you pregnant so quickly?
You trust, you pay, you put in a lot of time, energy and mental health. When it fails, you are without all of those resources (full risk). The other party has gained resources (no risk).
This is way too one-sided.
So, I don't get paid more the longer that you work with me. If fact, the faster we work and get you pregnant, the more clients that I can accept.
And if my program doesn’t work, I want you to use that money on something that will work for you…hopefully that thing also provides a risk-free guarantee.
I am willing to invest my time, money, and energy into you (with risk) if you are willing to invest it into me (with no risk).
Even after I explain this, I usually get a lot of questions. Please come to me with any question you need answered, but understand that this guarantee is without strings attached. It is straightforward and simple. No pregnancy, no matter how long we work together, equals money back.
Is your program for women trying to conceive naturally or doing Intrauterine Insemination (IUI)?
I do work with women who are being told that they need IVF, but first wants to do everything possible to get pregnant naturally before moving forward with IVF.
But if you are just trying to conceive naturally with no intention of doing fertility treatments, you would be ideal for my program that I host a couple times a year on Trying to Conceive Naturally. If you are interested in it, just make sure you are signed up for my newsletter so you can learn when I am hosting this program next.
If you are doing IUI, please read this blog that I did on when to do it and when to skip it. And then we can talk.
Are you a doctor or nurse?
No, I am a coach. My formal education is in biology and chemistry, but the majority of my strategies were gathered through years helping other women get through their fertility journey much faster and cheaper than I did. I did ten rounds of IVF to have my two children. Once I launched the FU Project, I took a deep dive into the fertility industry to learn who was doing it right and what could delay success. I studied the science, the environmental factors, the endocrine system, how nutrition could affect fertility, and I know for certain what women need to propel their journey forward. I am an expert in the field, an insider at some of the top fertility clinics, but also a peer- I know what it feels like to be you right now. I have been through every appointment, every shot, and every "WTF just happened" disappointment.
I am also the one person who knows how to help you in any situation during this journey. This takes a lot of pressure off of your partner and/or you. Any of the BS that goes with your fertility journey is on me to solve.
I am about to start IVF in a couple of weeks. Can I still start and work with you or will I have to delay it?
I like to have at least four weeks before the next procedure (egg retrieval or embryo transfer). That being said, I have had people come to me a couple weeks before their transfer. There is a lot to do in those weeks, but as long as you don’t easily get overwhelmed, you can do it. But that is not ideal. Four weeks plus is ideal.
How long is your program?
The program starts the day we agree that you will be a good fit and ends when you are holding your baby. I recently added another nine months to my program so that I can support you throughout your pregnancy too.
So what exactly do I have to do in your program?
The general structure is that you have access to me anytime you need- no limitations to the amount of times that we talk on the phone or communicate via text/email. If you need me, I’m there. You will also have access to my online resources. These are the videos, documents, exercises and strategies that I have created over the years that cover the biggest challenges that come up with one’s fertility journey. I also have a section in there called, “Patient-to-Patient Guide to IVF” for those doing IVF for the first time.
You will also have access to my team. My team includes a personal success coach assigned to you to organize you and me (I need it more than you) on where you are, important dates, things that I need to do for you, and what you need to do for me. These success coaches do not advise you on your fertility journey- that is my role- they are your personal guide for anything you need throughout the program.
There are also experts that are available to you. I hired experts in each category of typical challenges such as a mindset coach, nutritionist, nurse, and spiritual adviser. If you need any of these, you get to work with them.
Overall, there is a typical path that I like to take all clients through with a customized approach for each client pending your goals and needs and personality.
That sounds like a lot of time and I don’t have time.
My first reaction to hearing this is that this program will not be a good fit for you.
I am allergic to people wasting my time and so I refuse to do it to others. So, whatever I am asking you to do is simply because it has helped dozens (over 100+) women before you successfully get pregnant quickly. It is a method/exercise that has been proven through research and experience.
So, if you have no desire to do things or make any changes or try anything new to get pregnant, you will not like my program at all.
I can’t get you pregnant. I can just show you how.
How much does the program cost?
The investment in the program is a one-time fee no matter how long you are in it. It is a mid-four-figure investment that I will share if we determine that we will be a good fit for each other.
I didn’t think the cost would be so much. Why is it so much?
First, you don't know how much it is yet :) Second, the ROI (return on investment) is tremendous. Here is some quick math. Doing 2 Rounds of IVF + my program will increase your chances for success by +112%. And then there are my strategies for saving tens of thousands of dollars on the costs of IVF, and also the value of preserving your time, energy, and mental health on your journey.
Your fertility journey, when NOT executed correctly, will be VERY VERY VERY EXPENSIVE. Not just financially, but mentally and emotionally. I have dozens and dozens of stories to share about how expensive it is to do IVF incorrectly if you care to hear about them.
How do you save me money on my treatments?
Aside from knowing all the tricks to getting discounts when you do or don’t have insurance, I dramatically cut the time it takes for you to get pregnant and therefore reduce all of the financial, physical, and emotional costs of your fertility journey.
In my current group alone I have a woman who did four rounds of IVF ($100K+) with nothing to show before joining my program. She is on target to have three children (at different times) even though she is 40 with no wasted rounds of IVF.
I have a woman who just saved $33K in her fertility journey by by tricks on how to get discounts. Plus, she was being refused IVF treatments by specific fertility clinics and told she needed donor eggs. I made some calls to get the best of the best doctors to help her. She saved the $30K in donor egg fees and currently has HER genetically normal embryos on ice due to my connections and recommendations.
Another woman found $15K worth of fertility benefits at her insurance company after our first phone call. Plus, while going through a personal tragedy, has learning how to be more positive and fearless in their journey and her relationship with her husband is better than what she ever dreamed possible (priceless).
Another did not have to start IVF all over again ($26K saving) because she found me when she had only one genetically healthy embryo left (after multiple failed embryo transfers). I showed her how to improve implantation, and it worked.
Another woman is saving herself the cost of possibly having to do IVF ($26K ever time she would have tried) by learning how she can still get pregnant naturally even though she is being told she must do IVF.
Another woman is experiencing pregnancy without a miscarriage for the first time since working with me (priceless).
I could go on and on. And these are just the financial savings. If you ask any of my clients what price they would put on going through this journey knowing how to be more fearless and confident and feeling less lonely and wholly guided throughout, and actually happy, I am sure they would put a $10K+ price tag on that part alone.
Even more powerful is the investment that people tell me they would have paid if they knew about me when they were trying to get pregnant. These people do not have the family that they spent years trying to create. One husband told me that if he could go back in time and work with me, he would have paid me over $100,000 not to have gone through all of the pain that his wife and he went through during the several years of unsuccessfully trying to have a second child.
Can I talk to someone in the program?
Yes, but I would prefer to keep my clients as private and uninterrupted as much as possible. For that reason, I have client interviews on my testimonial page for you to check out as well as responses from my clients’ anonymous 6-week survey.
How do I start?
The next step is to schedule a call. When you schedule, there is a quick questionnaire to fill out. This will give us a good overview of your journey so far. If we believe that we can help you with just some resource links, we will send those links to you and cancel our call. Otherwise, I will come prepared for our call with a customized strategy to share with you.
Will it be you that I am talking to when I schedule a call?
Possibly. I block about 9 hours a week on my schedule to take these strategy sessions, but the rest of my day is for my clients and they are, of course, my priority. My clients have access to me when they need me and emergencies come up, so I limit the amount of time I can give to potential clients and maximize the time that I give to current clients.
The woman that you speak to, however, will be smarter than me and able to answer all of your questions and determine if this program is a good fit for you.
The women on my team are AMAZING and I have a close connection with all of them. I know that you are not supposed to hire your friends, but these women, how were my friends first, are so talented and loving and passionate and I am so lucky that they agreed to work with me.
And if you are ready to get started, then you will have unlimited access to me and you and I will have our first call together ASAP so we can get started on making sure your baby arrives soon!
*Sart.org. Preliminary subsequent outcome (frozen cycle) average success rates after two embryo transfers versus my success rates after two embryo transfers.